Sometimes I often think he is a wrong choice. I would need to ask my husband again. Though our husband's are different we are very similar. Did you ask him to drop you off and he refused, or were you hoping he'd think of it himself.
I spent a lot of time on my knees and made several trips to the temple before I felt l could trust that what I knew I wanted to be promptings actually were. Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff. I appreciate knowing all you have mentioned since it gives me a bit of insight and some real good tips.
I clearly stated twice that I severed things with the girl. Make sure she knows the plan, so you both can dress appropriately. But what does it really mean to be a patriarch, to lead your tribe. And I don't have issues with her, hell, haven't even seen her in over 20 years, but the experience with the whole Mormon thing gave me better insight in to many things in life. Sometimes I seat and think how we can make this work when both of us have career aspirations I am trying to find a tenure-track position close to my husband this year, and I just keep my fingers crossed that I can do that. I have been married for 16 years to a cardiothoracic surgeon. Funny thing is he told me when we met that he was ready to stop focusing so much on work and start focusing more on his life. Why the Mormon Church is Not a Cult. He is coming to church with me and our daughter for the ward Christmas program.
I have been married to a doctor for 29 years now and think I have felt or experienced many of the worries expressed. If you like her, and I'm assuming you do, I would suggest you continue the relationship and see how things pan out. As a Christian one's values won't allow an affair on the lonely spouse' part either - but that probably won't bug you by the sounds of it.