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In , two women who were long past college age settled into a dorm room at a large public university in the Midwest. Elizabeth Armstrong, a sociology professor at the University of Michigan, and Laura Hamilton, then a graduate assistant and now a sociology professor at the University of California at Merced, were there to examine the daily lives and attitudes of college students. The researchers interviewed the 53 women on their floor every year for five years—from the time they were freshmen through their first year out of college. On top of asking the students about GPAs and friend groups, the researchers also dug into their beliefs about morality—sometimes through direct questions, but often, simply by being present for a late-night squabble or a bashful confession. As Armstrong and Hamilton write in a new study published in Social Psychology Quarterly , economic inequality drove many of the differences in the ways the women talked about appropriate sexual behavior. It seems there was no better way to smear a dorm-mate than to suggest she was sexually impure. One woman described her best friend like so:. That to me, if you want to talk about slutty, that to me is whoring yourself out. For her analysis, Armstrong divided the cohort in two, with wealthier women in one group and the working-class ones in the other.
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A new study finds that young women are guilty of bullying their peers using degrading sexual language. Researchers tracked the social lives of 53 women who lived on the same college dorm floor at a Midwestern university during the academic year. The high-status women in that group were primarily from upper-middle class backgrounds and achieved peer status through their participation in the Greek scene. Researchers found that low-status women who tried to enter the high-status scene risked public slut-shaming. The result? The researchers found that the higher social status you had, the more hookups you would participate in: Of the low-status girls, five had little or no sexual experience, eight had only been in monogamous relationships, one had primarily had relationships but also participated in hookups and seven had participated in both hookups and relationships. By contrast, all of the high-status girls had some sexual experience: One had had only monogamous relationships, three had primarily had relationships but also participated in hookups and 19 women had both hookups and relationships. The bullying tactic has particularly stinging implications considering those women at the top tended to be upper-middle class white women, and the women with lower social status tended not to be. Sadly, girl-on-girl fighting usually ends up empowering men.
I'm the mother of a young teen. I was a young teen once myself. And if there's one thing I know about young teens, it's this: They do boneheaded things. It's unavoidable. The combination of surging hormones and not-yet-mature brains leads to choices ranging from merely unwise to downright criminal. As parents, we have the hard and frustrating job of both helping our kids avoid those choices and enforcing penalties when they do make them.